My story wasn’t shaped by comfort. My father, 60 years my senior, did the best he could, but his age created a gap. My mother’s memory faded early, and by 11, roles were reversed—my concern wasn’t about school projects, but about my aging father.

By 13, I had made multiple attempts to leave this world entirely. No one knew. On the outside, I seemed like a normal kid—sometimes troubled—but inside, I felt completely alone, drowning in silence.

At 14, labeled ‘homeless,’ I refused to be defined by my circumstances. That chapter wasn’t the end—it was the beginning of a fight to find purpose.

At 15, seeking both escape and identity, I turned to bull riding in rodeos. I was searching for purpose while trying to outrun the pain. That chapter tested me physically and mentally, pushing me to face challenges head-on and build resilience in ways I never imagined.

At 18, still in the midst of my bull riding years, I discovered Tony Robbins’ Awaken the Giant Within. It wasn’t just words on a page—it was a lifeline. It taught me that pain could shape me but not define me. It made me realize I had the power to rewrite my story, stop running, and start rebuilding myself from the inside out.

After retiring from bull riding at 21, I channeled that same relentless mindset into personal training, bodybuilding, and eventually entrepreneurship. Each pursuit wasn’t just a career move—it was part of my evolution, refining my discipline, leadership, and unshakable sense of purpose.

Becoming a father added a new dimension to my life. Raising my son, Tatham, as a single dad has deepened my sense of purpose. Every day, I strive to be the man he deserves—a leader he can trust, respect, and be proud of.

That responsibility reinforced my mission: To guide men who feel stuck, lost, or out of control—men who want to be better fathers, stronger leaders, and successful in every area of life. I’ve been in the trenches for over a decade, coaching men to reclaim their strength, own their purpose, and become the men they were born to be.

In a world diluting true masculinity, I stand firm. INTEGRITY, HONOUR, and ARETE aren’t just words to me—they’re non-negotiable values I live by. They shape the father I am, the leader I’ve become, and the legacy I’m building for my son and every man I coach.

Thank you for hearing my story. Whether we cross paths for a season, a moment, or a lifetime, I hope my words inspire you to rise, own your story, and lead with strength.